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Hi, everyone... I know I've been MIA for quite some times in this blog... But here I am, posting... Hehe, happy boh??
Hm, i have no particular topic in mind now... What I wanted to say are mostly posted in my blog... So I'm gonna turn the attention towards Bebek's question... If I interpreted it correctly, I would say that she's asking about pre-marital sex between a couple or casual sex between strangers...
Well, it's a plain controversial issue, isn't it?
Before I state my opinion in this issue, let us be clear that what I am about to say express my personal opinion, and I'm not asking anybody to agree with me... So don't crucify me or burn down my apartment...
I don't see anything wrong with that... As BearBear said, it's a matter of principles and ethics, and I believe that everyone should have the freedom to do what they believe it, as long as they don't hurt others... But for me, as long as two people (or more, if that's your thing) do it willingly, I don't think it's a sin or whatsoever... Different story if one of them is drugged, or forced to...
I know some people frowned upon it and chooses to wait until marriage... But marriage is a formality and legalization, it does not guarantee a happy ending nor will it suddenly increases your love for the other half... Married or not, as long as you love your partner, why not? But if your partner forces you to have sex with him/her to prove your love, that is NOT OKAY... If he/she loves you as much, he/she CAN wait...
My point is, sex comes naturally with love... It clicks... It creates emotional bonds between two people... How can that be sinful? Seriously... I think to condemn a person because he/she does not share your personal moral value is just plain sinful...
Now casual sex, well, in a way, I agree and disagree with it... Emotional and physical release perhaps?? Well, we know how depression and loneliness can cripple someone, especially in the middle of the night... When the "hungry ghost" come out to play... But as long as both sides can accept it and be responsible about it, there's nothing wrong with it... But sad to say, most people somehow lose the rational side of their brain when they are "hungry"... So hungry, that some people eat garbage... Ha!
Hi, everyone... I know I've been MIA for quite some times in this blog... But here I am, posting... Hehe, happy boh??
Hm, i have no particular topic in mind now... What I wanted to say are mostly posted in my blog... So I'm gonna turn the attention towards Bebek's question... If I interpreted it correctly, I would say that she's asking about pre-marital sex between a couple or casual sex between strangers...
Well, it's a plain controversial issue, isn't it?
Before I state my opinion in this issue, let us be clear that what I am about to say express my personal opinion, and I'm not asking anybody to agree with me... So don't crucify me or burn down my apartment...
I don't see anything wrong with that... As BearBear said, it's a matter of principles and ethics, and I believe that everyone should have the freedom to do what they believe it, as long as they don't hurt others... But for me, as long as two people (or more, if that's your thing) do it willingly, I don't think it's a sin or whatsoever... Different story if one of them is drugged, or forced to...
I know some people frowned upon it and chooses to wait until marriage... But marriage is a formality and legalization, it does not guarantee a happy ending nor will it suddenly increases your love for the other half... Married or not, as long as you love your partner, why not? But if your partner forces you to have sex with him/her to prove your love, that is NOT OKAY... If he/she loves you as much, he/she CAN wait...
My point is, sex comes naturally with love... It clicks... It creates emotional bonds between two people... How can that be sinful? Seriously... I think to condemn a person because he/she does not share your personal moral value is just plain sinful...
Now casual sex, well, in a way, I agree and disagree with it... Emotional and physical release perhaps?? Well, we know how depression and loneliness can cripple someone, especially in the middle of the night... When the "hungry ghost" come out to play... But as long as both sides can accept it and be responsible about it, there's nothing wrong with it... But sad to say, most people somehow lose the rational side of their brain when they are "hungry"... So hungry, that some people eat garbage... Ha!
Personally, I would not date a guy who is notorious for sleeping around... Hellooooo. STD??!!Not to mention he must have the bubble-gum-theory... Chew and throw... Well, unless I also need some bubble-gum... *Ehem*
Lastly, people have personal prejudice about girls who aren't, ehem. virgins... A guy gets to sleep around and he becomes a hero... A girl sleeps around and she's a whore...What is this?? 1952?? Welcome to the new millenium, yo!! You are not GOD, you HAVE to play by the rules (Well, God made a virgin pregnant, he obviously does not play by the rules)... If you expect your future wife to be a virgin, then keep your "pet" inside its cage...
Anyway, those are my personal opinions... Agree or not, it is up to you... But do give feedback if you'd like to... Love to discuss it...
Til then, tee hee!! And play safe, darlings!!
Lastly, people have personal prejudice about girls who aren't, ehem. virgins... A guy gets to sleep around and he becomes a hero... A girl sleeps around and she's a whore...What is this?? 1952?? Welcome to the new millenium, yo!! You are not GOD, you HAVE to play by the rules (Well, God made a virgin pregnant, he obviously does not play by the rules)... If you expect your future wife to be a virgin, then keep your "pet" inside its cage...
Anyway, those are my personal opinions... Agree or not, it is up to you... But do give feedback if you'd like to... Love to discuss it...
Til then, tee hee!! And play safe, darlings!!
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