So what is that about????

I wonder how bebek came up to that question. but that question did not actually bugged me at all, cause I knew it when I was in primary school. by the time I saw a condom in my primary school's playground and we all discussed it. and by that time, the school actually organized some talks to share about safe sex. so I do reckon that doing those things were nothing.

so base on my assumption, regarding to bebek's case, firstly she grew up in a totally different family, being taught by innocent thoughts. in addition to her ethical value, I will not surprise by the reason she asked this question, seems confusing huh???

oh ya, digging back to my memories, I remembered back when I first arrived to Penang, I received a msg from my old friend in my secondary school, that one of my friend was caught for making love with her girl friend in the stairway of the school, being found by janitor (quite similar case happened in Han Chiang)....I was rather shocked but I couldnt change anything because that was the fact.yet the very first thing I think bebek should know is, every individual acts its own way and everybody has their own ethical/social value. to which they don't matters will matter to other ppl.

I also had a strong experience regarding to this one when I arrived Australia, to which their western culture doesn't seem concerning bebek's bug. I work in a tourist area which has many pubs and drunk people, plus those ppl who were there to hook up girls and 18PLing.. they act on their ego and ignore everybody in this world, as long as they get their pleasure. To God, these are sins. To them, these are definitions of happiness. I had encountered many times that they are willing to offer their body to me just for some food, a few showed their body to me directly= = So these facts were just merely presenting to me, unconditionally.

I hope bebek can tahan these kind of things because thatz Human nature. we are born Human and we are born to the desires of not listening to God's words. only those who knew the spirit of God and control themselves shall not express their love in that way. It is merely a shame to Australia by calling themselves as a Christianity country....haizz

I guess I was answering the wrong question though but I do really hope my assumptions to bebek were correct...please guide me if I had made any typos...

P.S.: sorry for explaining in this way